Im also in the middle of making a bp.
Body VS endurance
Manteau VS Healing Manteau ( think thats the name gives 5 aspd )
1 hd weapon VS Long Mace (Wanted Vs cleaver but no holy sup runes on sale)
Shoes VS Forest Shoes
Acces 2x Rosary R4
I have not reset my stats yet.
I get aspd of 111 with agi up lvl 5.
I think i find my experience just like yours, where you need an over-up weapon to make up for the lack of an anubis.
Seems to me like a 1hd dps shielder with low armour and lower dmg. Still the heal and hammer makes up for it. However with heal, makes me wonder if we really need hp absorb and also to try and hit 150+ aspd. I can kill but dmg still quite low due to my current weapon of choice.
Server : Asgard
Char : Lvl 6x Two-hand Knight PVE
Lvl 6x Swordie 1hd Flee-Hp Absorb built
Lvl 6x Wall
Lvl 6x DPS Priest
Lvl 6x Katar Sin
Lvl 6x Wiz
Lvl 6x FS Priest
Lvl 6x Dagger Sin
In the making : lvl 6x mage bolts and napalm for pvp